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<blockquote data-quote="JRC" data-source="post: 721129" data-attributes="member: 21147"><p>Culture-</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry. So very sorry. You are in a tough situation. On the one hand, you were re-evaluating your relationship already and considering leaving her. On the other, if you leave her now, she will spin it as you exiting left just when her world turned upside down. </p><p></p><p>I will also say that some people when in a crisis want the whole world to feel that crisis and pain too. She's expecting this of you as a kind of "joining" or camaraderie. As if you being as disabled as she is shows that you truly share the pain and anguish. Your strength feels like a rejection to her. I'm not saying this is what you are doing, I'm saying this is how she perceives it. And no it's not healthy. </p><p></p><p>You have some hard decisions to make. I really feel for you. xo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JRC, post: 721129, member: 21147"] Culture- I'm so sorry. So very sorry. You are in a tough situation. On the one hand, you were re-evaluating your relationship already and considering leaving her. On the other, if you leave her now, she will spin it as you exiting left just when her world turned upside down. I will also say that some people when in a crisis want the whole world to feel that crisis and pain too. She's expecting this of you as a kind of "joining" or camaraderie. As if you being as disabled as she is shows that you truly share the pain and anguish. Your strength feels like a rejection to her. I'm not saying this is what you are doing, I'm saying this is how she perceives it. And no it's not healthy. You have some hard decisions to make. I really feel for you. xo [/QUOTE]
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