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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 721142" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Just because some people, who are very selfish, want us to suffer when they do, doesnt mean those people are good folks. Why would a good person want a loved one to hurt because they hurt??</p><p></p><p>Anger is never helpful. Yes, everyone feels anger, but we choose whether to lash out meanly or to realize that hurting those who love us is wrong. Not everyone thinks "I hurt so I am going to make sure you do too." I would guess this is not the norm. Please...do not normalize abuse no matter why it happens. There is really no excuse for abuse, no reason we should accept it from anyone. Yes, the suicide attempt was awful, but the adult mind should not lash out at those surrounding us. It is childish to think "i hurt so you better hurt too and I will make sure you do!"</p><p></p><p>Do what your gut tells you. Nothing has to be decided right now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 721142, member: 1550"] Just because some people, who are very selfish, want us to suffer when they do, doesnt mean those people are good folks. Why would a good person want a loved one to hurt because they hurt?? Anger is never helpful. Yes, everyone feels anger, but we choose whether to lash out meanly or to realize that hurting those who love us is wrong. Not everyone thinks "I hurt so I am going to make sure you do too." I would guess this is not the norm. Please...do not normalize abuse no matter why it happens. There is really no excuse for abuse, no reason we should accept it from anyone. Yes, the suicide attempt was awful, but the adult mind should not lash out at those surrounding us. It is childish to think "i hurt so you better hurt too and I will make sure you do!" Do what your gut tells you. Nothing has to be decided right now. [/QUOTE]
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