<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She's not the problem...I'm the one who is having doubts that I'm being fair to her. </div></div>
Hmmmm......if she's okay with it....are you sure you aren't using her as an excuse for having some fear/concerns of your own about the move? It would certainly be understandable if you were concerned about whether or not this is the right thing to do for you since it is a huge undertaking.
Just a thought...
If you really are okay with it and she is okay with it, then don't waste another minute second-guessing your decision. Think forward and start packing!
Suz