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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 754098" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Don’t fight with her/them anymore, skittles.</p><p></p><p>That is the worst way of dealing with the situation.</p><p></p><p>“No” is a complete sentence. And much more powerful.</p><p></p><p>If she insists, argues, threatens, bullies, tries to change your mind to allow him in your presence or in your car, just walk away (or drive away or hang up). She isn’t the boss, he isn’t the boss. You are doing her a favor; you can control the situation to your liking or bow out.</p><p></p><p>Are you planning to take her to all her OB appointments/new baby appointments? She will want him to go with her, since he is the father. It doesn’t seem like a tenable situation for you. Maybe you should find a way to extricate yourself.</p><p></p><p>And, this may not be the last baby. Do you want to be at her beck and call for ten more years of babies? Seems that may be enabling her to continue to produce babies she can’t afford with men who won’t support them.</p><p></p><p>I, too, am glad that you have informed the authorities of the behaviors of this sketchy man child. I hope you can find peace with the situation you have found yourself in.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 754098, member: 16024"] Don’t fight with her/them anymore, skittles. That is the worst way of dealing with the situation. “No” is a complete sentence. And much more powerful. If she insists, argues, threatens, bullies, tries to change your mind to allow him in your presence or in your car, just walk away (or drive away or hang up). She isn’t the boss, he isn’t the boss. You are doing her a favor; you can control the situation to your liking or bow out. Are you planning to take her to all her OB appointments/new baby appointments? She will want him to go with her, since he is the father. It doesn’t seem like a tenable situation for you. Maybe you should find a way to extricate yourself. And, this may not be the last baby. Do you want to be at her beck and call for ten more years of babies? Seems that may be enabling her to continue to produce babies she can’t afford with men who won’t support them. I, too, am glad that you have informed the authorities of the behaviors of this sketchy man child. I hope you can find peace with the situation you have found yourself in. [/QUOTE]
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