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It is a very difficult decision.  We paid for a lawyer for our difficult child and made a schedule for him to pay us back which he did.  I have thought about what I will do if my son is arrested again.  I will not bail my son out again.  I struggle with thinking about the attorney part because I suspect that the legal system isn't equal for people who have money for an attorney versus those who don't.  I suspect that I would get an attorney just because he did pay me back the first time.  Nothing is black and white.  There is no wrong answer.