It is a very tough decision, and I'm still not sure what to do. I'm going to talk to the attorney again tomorrow. She feels my son Difficult Child is just misguided, chose the wrong ppl to hang out with. He can be very charming, until things don't go his way. It is true Tired Mom, the legal system works more in favor of those who can afford a good attorney. One thing I do know for sure though, is that my son has to be the one to make the decision to change his life. I have no control over that.