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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 704505" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Okie</p><p></p><p>So sorry for your pain on trying to decide what is best to do. It is so hard for all of us. I agree with everyone else. He is 45 years old. Holy cow!! I would send him the bare minimum. That is what we do with our son who is 21. If you don't let yourself FEEL guilty, then you will not. Try this. It really does work.</p><p></p><p>I also would limit his calls to you. I have been in a whirlwind with my son for 5 years. No prison time but I FEEL I have paid MY dues in all of this - his bad decisions. I am CERTAIN you have paid yours.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and enjoy YOUR life and YOUR husband.</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 704505, member: 15032"] Okie So sorry for your pain on trying to decide what is best to do. It is so hard for all of us. I agree with everyone else. He is 45 years old. Holy cow!! I would send him the bare minimum. That is what we do with our son who is 21. If you don't let yourself FEEL guilty, then you will not. Try this. It really does work. I also would limit his calls to you. I have been in a whirlwind with my son for 5 years. No prison time but I FEEL I have paid MY dues in all of this - his bad decisions. I am CERTAIN you have paid yours. Hugs and enjoy YOUR life and YOUR husband. :staystrong: [/QUOTE]
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