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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 28138" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #663366"> <em>i'm assuming the school consequenced him? </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i believe what happens in school stays in school. i believe that if the school provides consequences once is enough. i believe consequences much be immediate in order to be most effective. kids have a hard time relating to consequences that are levied hours later.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>now this doesn't mean that you just ignore what happens in school. this is a time for discussions the need to make different choices....what are the alternative choices available. it's also a time when writing a letter of apology to the teacher for disrupting the class....& any child who might have been hit is a good idea. the whole taking responsibility thing here.....being accountable. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i agree with-linda. don't over think what's already been done. water over the bridge. i would suggest tho that you & husband have a good chat & get yourselves on the same page. if you are going to consequence for school issues make a list so you, husband & difficult child know clearly what will happen.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>kris </em> </span> </span> </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 28138, member: 74"] <span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #663366"> [i]i'm assuming the school consequenced him? i believe what happens in school stays in school. i believe that if the school provides consequences once is enough. i believe consequences much be immediate in order to be most effective. kids have a hard time relating to consequences that are levied hours later. now this doesn't mean that you just ignore what happens in school. this is a time for discussions the need to make different choices....what are the alternative choices available. it's also a time when writing a letter of apology to the teacher for disrupting the class....& any child who might have been hit is a good idea. the whole taking responsibility thing here.....being accountable. i agree with-linda. don't over think what's already been done. water over the bridge. i would suggest tho that you & husband have a good chat & get yourselves on the same page. if you are going to consequence for school issues make a list so you, husband & difficult child know clearly what will happen. kris [/i] </span> </span> </span> [/QUOTE]
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