I always make sure no matter what, that I take difficult child to psychiatrist. I think it is important for me to hear exactly what goes on and to be present. My mom or husband will take both kids to dentist, or primary care doctor for acute illness, but not psychiatrist. I know this can be hard, but I find it necessary.
When difficult child was evaled by current psychiatrist, husband mentioned that difficult child behaved better for him. psychiatrist stated this was common, and that lots of behaviors are saved for mom. Now that I understand what is going with difficult child and have accepted it (a huge piece for me) I can deal with him better. Mood stablizers (for him not me :smile:) have helped immensely (sp)
Good luck to you.
