Ditto. You're the one who enforces the rules. Grandma has fun. She's not with-difficult child 24/7.
No comparison.
I would not let her take him to the pediatrician again for all of the reasons stated above.
Was your difficult child's dosage changed? Were his scrips changed? Or is it all talk at this point? If it's all talk, I would try to blow it off, and make another appointment. with-the pediatrician. where YOU are there instead of your mom.
I wonder about how firm your pediatrician is in his medication philosophy and diagnosis if he is so easily swayed by your mom's opinion, and why he would have prescribed the medications in the 1st place, only to be 2nd guessed?
He's supposed to be basing this on a long-term history, not just one appointment.