This is such a concern of mine also. difficult child and I go at it almost every morning. (husband is gone to work by then). husband is rarely there when we get into it. He tells me it is ME and I cause the issues. Example this morning. difficult child went to a friends house until 10pm last night. I was asleep when he got home. So, this morning husband was taking him to Baseball practice, and I was going to go swimming. I waited for difficult child to wake up. Before he woke up, husband and I were talking. I asked how his time went at friends house, asked what they did. When difficult child woke up, I said good morning. Asked how his night went with friend. Asked him what he did...His answer in a snotty voice, "you already know, why ask". That got me. I told him I just wanted to talk to him and was waiting for him to get up. Sorry. I got up and started to get my things together. difficult child then yelling, "my god, you get mad at that.." husband was mad at me as well. I didn't say another word, just took my things and left. Is it me??
