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RN,

I joined the ARMY at age 22.  I weighed 90 pounds so they made me gain 10 to ship out.  It was hard as my metabolism was high.


I was always tiny, no eating disorder.  I'm not sure how you feel about giving him an "out" but he can quit anytime.  They don't make it easy but they can't make him stay.


I ended up getting out early because I couldn't handle the stress.  I grew up very anxious. I did complete basic training and AIT school.  I can tell you at 49 years old, getting out early is still my biggest regret.


All of that being said, basic training (8 weeks) taught me more than anything else in life to date.  It taught me how strong I really am, mentally and physically.   I would not be the person I am to this day without the training.


I think basic training could be very beneficial to him, even if he quits.  The screaming is just part of the "break you down" aspect so they can build you up.  It doesn't actually break you down.  It teaches you to act when ordered without questioning why-wghich comes in handy during wartime.


They do that, but very quickly build you up.  Everything they do will be to his benefit.


I've always had to answer for quitting,  but I just answer honestly.   I am a police officer now and had to actually get a letter from the army proving I wasn't nutty.


Police is paramilitary,  so I feel I had a second chance.  You are welcome to share my story with him.  If I can do it anyone can. A nervous 90 pound pipsqueek little girl.   I survived!


Hope this helps.  I don't know if reserve does not camp.


Jmom


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