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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 584797" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>My son is 35yo and refuses to grow up and take responsibility for his life too. I am positive my son has undiagnosed mental issues. He has gotton much worse, in my opinion, starting when he met the last girlie (she is 38). Not entirely her fault, but they are a super bad match. She gts disabilty too and wants to party constantly, I'm sure there are plenty of drugs. They stopped by on one of their numerous trips to see a concert and I had to give them money to get back home.</p><p></p><p>I have met her one time in the 2 years and she seemed to think I was going to send them money each month. They fight and she wants to call me to draw me into the drama. He cuts himself and threatens suicide. I did call the police and they called me back - he says he is not suicidal and is not homeless.</p><p></p><p>Thier last fight she came after him with a knife, she was sent to detox and he Baker Acted himself. Even after I knew of their conn where I was sending him money, I still paid for him to relocate and find help and a new job.</p><p></p><p>He is lying to me, but , I know they are back together. Just before Thanksgiving he text me again asking for money, I refused and he threathened suicide and a lot of other nasty things.</p><p></p><p>This was the final straw! He has dropped off the 'face of the earth' and I have not heard from him since November. IT HAS BEEN SO PEACEFUL!</p><p></p><p>I have finally learned to turn it over to my HP and have a life! I know he one day may actually kill himself and my worries will not do anything to prevent it. I gave him numbers of locations for help and he said he would go but never showed up. Thank goodness he lives in another state and there is no way he is moving in or no way I will give him money.</p><p></p><p>With this type of child you have to change your mind set to self preservation, regardless how mean it sounds. My son also started at a very early age and until they want to get a better life we can not make them. Girlie was telling me how bad of a mother I was for having things and my son has nothing, and not sending money. Who's fault is that, I guess mine as Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) as they are concerned. Get over the guilt and make them responsbvile for their own problems - they are certainly old enough!</p><p></p><p>(((huggs only a parent walking in your shoes can understand how hard it is)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 584797, member: 13558"] My son is 35yo and refuses to grow up and take responsibility for his life too. I am positive my son has undiagnosed mental issues. He has gotton much worse, in my opinion, starting when he met the last girlie (she is 38). Not entirely her fault, but they are a super bad match. She gts disabilty too and wants to party constantly, I'm sure there are plenty of drugs. They stopped by on one of their numerous trips to see a concert and I had to give them money to get back home. I have met her one time in the 2 years and she seemed to think I was going to send them money each month. They fight and she wants to call me to draw me into the drama. He cuts himself and threatens suicide. I did call the police and they called me back - he says he is not suicidal and is not homeless. Thier last fight she came after him with a knife, she was sent to detox and he Baker Acted himself. Even after I knew of their conn where I was sending him money, I still paid for him to relocate and find help and a new job. He is lying to me, but , I know they are back together. Just before Thanksgiving he text me again asking for money, I refused and he threathened suicide and a lot of other nasty things. This was the final straw! He has dropped off the 'face of the earth' and I have not heard from him since November. IT HAS BEEN SO PEACEFUL! I have finally learned to turn it over to my HP and have a life! I know he one day may actually kill himself and my worries will not do anything to prevent it. I gave him numbers of locations for help and he said he would go but never showed up. Thank goodness he lives in another state and there is no way he is moving in or no way I will give him money. With this type of child you have to change your mind set to self preservation, regardless how mean it sounds. My son also started at a very early age and until they want to get a better life we can not make them. Girlie was telling me how bad of a mother I was for having things and my son has nothing, and not sending money. Who's fault is that, I guess mine as Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) as they are concerned. Get over the guilt and make them responsbvile for their own problems - they are certainly old enough! (((huggs only a parent walking in your shoes can understand how hard it is))) [/QUOTE]
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