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<blockquote data-quote="Coookie" data-source="post: 134053" data-attributes="member: 1587"><p>Oh my goodness. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Many hugs for your worried and hurting heart. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> been there done that and it is a living hell. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> I didn't read all the responses but Janet is very wise in these issues (she helped husband and I greatly when our difficult child got stuck on stupid and went UA). Things would have been fine for him, dropped in rank, restrictions...but...he tested positive for pot and got a Less than Honorable discharge. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p> </p><p>The local police would not get involved because he was Military and at that time 18. He was 17 in bootcamp.</p><p> </p><p>I remember the worry like it was yesterday and the only thing I can tell you is that you have word that he is ok. Did his CO say if he was alone or not? It took some time but husband and I found out that our difficult child took off with 2 other guys, were planning on returning before the 30 days but what they didn't realize was that they would have the drugs in their systems... typical difficult child thinking. It is an action that our difficult child regrets to this day.</p><p> </p><p>I was worried sick, husband got angry. You need to take care of yourself. Your difficult child made a choice, as ours did, one that he will have to live with.</p><p> </p><p>I'm so sorry hon. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p> </p><p>Sending many more hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coookie, post: 134053, member: 1587"] Oh my goodness. :( Many hugs for your worried and hurting heart. :( been there done that and it is a living hell. :( I didn't read all the responses but Janet is very wise in these issues (she helped husband and I greatly when our difficult child got stuck on stupid and went UA). Things would have been fine for him, dropped in rank, restrictions...but...he tested positive for pot and got a Less than Honorable discharge. :( The local police would not get involved because he was Military and at that time 18. He was 17 in bootcamp. I remember the worry like it was yesterday and the only thing I can tell you is that you have word that he is ok. Did his CO say if he was alone or not? It took some time but husband and I found out that our difficult child took off with 2 other guys, were planning on returning before the 30 days but what they didn't realize was that they would have the drugs in their systems... typical difficult child thinking. It is an action that our difficult child regrets to this day. I was worried sick, husband got angry. You need to take care of yourself. Your difficult child made a choice, as ours did, one that he will have to live with. I'm so sorry hon. :( Sending many more hugs. [/QUOTE]
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