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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 329272" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Aninom I am coming in late but I just wanted to reach out to you and let you know you are not alone, and you have support here.</p><p></p><p>I am not sure if you can see that her problems stem from not just a chemical imbalance in her brain, but also from a structural problem in the way she thinks. At her age, this will not change. People who have personality disorders rarely change. Even if they wanted to, which she does not, it takes years and years of intensive one on one daily therapy to make a difference. She is not based in reality Aninom. She is like a small child in a fairy tale, she is in some other fantasy land, and she is not ever going to come back to earth.</p><p></p><p>I know that is horrible and sad, and ever so painful - but that is the truth. She is abusing you, and that will never stop unless you extract yourself from her life. </p><p></p><p>You are very young, and you should not have to be in the position of being her "enabler", "rescuer", or "mother". You should be young and free, and happy. You are beautiful, talented, smart, and articulate - embrace who you are - and let your sister go. I do know how painful it is - but it is the only way anyone has a chance here.</p><p></p><p>I hope you do not have to see her again in Feb. </p><p></p><p>We are here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 329272, member: 3301"] Aninom I am coming in late but I just wanted to reach out to you and let you know you are not alone, and you have support here. I am not sure if you can see that her problems stem from not just a chemical imbalance in her brain, but also from a structural problem in the way she thinks. At her age, this will not change. People who have personality disorders rarely change. Even if they wanted to, which she does not, it takes years and years of intensive one on one daily therapy to make a difference. She is not based in reality Aninom. She is like a small child in a fairy tale, she is in some other fantasy land, and she is not ever going to come back to earth. I know that is horrible and sad, and ever so painful - but that is the truth. She is abusing you, and that will never stop unless you extract yourself from her life. You are very young, and you should not have to be in the position of being her "enabler", "rescuer", or "mother". You should be young and free, and happy. You are beautiful, talented, smart, and articulate - embrace who you are - and let your sister go. I do know how painful it is - but it is the only way anyone has a chance here. I hope you do not have to see her again in Feb. We are here for you. [/QUOTE]
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