SVD, In my situation, I have found it hard to find that "line in the sand". I always knew that I would, just didn't know what would finally cause me to say "Enough." I finally have the line in the sand with my 2 oldest children. My younger 2 are thankfully, wonderful. I have struggled with my feelings and what ifs but have not gone back on my lines in the sand. Overall, I know that is what is best for me and ultimately, for them. I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Hugs
