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SVD, It really is okay for other people to step in and offer help. It may not last but at least it it off of you for awhile and gives your son another perspective. My daughter and son, both, had services that I helped get into place for them. My son basically disregarded the services. My daughter blew out of service/residence after residence. She finally had her own subsidized apartment and a day program. Great services to ensure she got her medication everyday and her monthly injection. She had a boyfriend who is disabled but a steady person who has an apartment and has been employed for over 20 years. I still visited with her and took her out for dinner, etc. It was as stable as I ever saw her. Then she had to fulfill her agonizing dream of going to her birthmother. I did give her my blessings but her life went completely down hill from that point. That was 8 years ago.