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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 621695" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Sounds like my father AND my mother, BITS. Dad controlled with his money and mother would actually withdraw her person completely if she was upset. She would not speak to you. She did this to me. Her voice in my head was my torment for years. I had to learn (and this was not until I was almost forty!) to ignore her voice in my head and to focus on reality. They were conflicting...what she said and what was real about me. I suspect the same goes for your father and what he says about you. Clearly, just by what I've read here, you are a very good, caring, giving person with a heart that is bursting with love. Your father's tormenting voice can make you doubt yourself, if you let him, but he can not change the truth about the good person that you are. </p><p></p><p>Sorry you have to go through all this parent crapola.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 621695, member: 1550"] Sounds like my father AND my mother, BITS. Dad controlled with his money and mother would actually withdraw her person completely if she was upset. She would not speak to you. She did this to me. Her voice in my head was my torment for years. I had to learn (and this was not until I was almost forty!) to ignore her voice in my head and to focus on reality. They were conflicting...what she said and what was real about me. I suspect the same goes for your father and what he says about you. Clearly, just by what I've read here, you are a very good, caring, giving person with a heart that is bursting with love. Your father's tormenting voice can make you doubt yourself, if you let him, but he can not change the truth about the good person that you are. Sorry you have to go through all this parent crapola. [/QUOTE]
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