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<blockquote data-quote="Sherril2000" data-source="post: 653188" data-attributes="member: 18767"><p>Bless you for your reply. My ex has always blamed me for everything that went wrong in my kids lives, & after a while, I started believing everything was my fault. It really helps to hear from you , because not only have you been through similar problems, but your opinions are unbiased. My ex went so far as to go to the kids' school & lie to the staff, telling them I allowed my son and his friends to do whatever they wanted in my home when nothing could have been further from the truth. He would even talk trash about me to all the other parents at my daughters softball games. I really love my kids, & despite having to be the breadwinner for years, I was always there for them. It broke my heart when my ex got physical custody because my son decided he didn't want to go to school & started skipping classes when I had custody of him. After his dad got custody, he refused to live with him, & ran away multiple times, cutting off house arrest bracelets 6 times. His girlfriend's family (mom & step dad are drug addicts) harbored him. He learned how to survive with- them by stealing, & was finally caught and put in Juvenile detention for 13 months. He got out 12/22, & went right back 1/14. I keep hoping he will put his life back together when he gets out, but I'm keeping my rules in place & he will have to respect them or find another place to live. The judge had ruled in favor of me getting full custody of my daughter back, but my ex filed an emergency petition for custody when my son violated his probation. This has all been very hard on my daughter, & I believe that has a lot to do with- why she's acting out. I'm there for her & trying to be as supportive as I can be while still enforcing the rules. I'm praying she doesn't continue to act out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sherril2000, post: 653188, member: 18767"] Bless you for your reply. My ex has always blamed me for everything that went wrong in my kids lives, & after a while, I started believing everything was my fault. It really helps to hear from you , because not only have you been through similar problems, but your opinions are unbiased. My ex went so far as to go to the kids' school & lie to the staff, telling them I allowed my son and his friends to do whatever they wanted in my home when nothing could have been further from the truth. He would even talk trash about me to all the other parents at my daughters softball games. I really love my kids, & despite having to be the breadwinner for years, I was always there for them. It broke my heart when my ex got physical custody because my son decided he didn't want to go to school & started skipping classes when I had custody of him. After his dad got custody, he refused to live with him, & ran away multiple times, cutting off house arrest bracelets 6 times. His girlfriend's family (mom & step dad are drug addicts) harbored him. He learned how to survive with- them by stealing, & was finally caught and put in Juvenile detention for 13 months. He got out 12/22, & went right back 1/14. I keep hoping he will put his life back together when he gets out, but I'm keeping my rules in place & he will have to respect them or find another place to live. The judge had ruled in favor of me getting full custody of my daughter back, but my ex filed an emergency petition for custody when my son violated his probation. This has all been very hard on my daughter, & I believe that has a lot to do with- why she's acting out. I'm there for her & trying to be as supportive as I can be while still enforcing the rules. I'm praying she doesn't continue to act out. [/QUOTE]
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