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Another point of view on Shunning. And shunning vs. no contact
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 674748" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I agree, Serenity. I think there is such a thing too as shunning in place that happens when we are little kids. This is the training ground for the FOG place that happens when we are openly shunned as adults. That FOG place, I think this is true, happens when old traumatic events are keyed. Shunning is a multi-level thing. It happens when we gossip. We are engaging in a form of shunning when we listen, and when we are the ones gossiping, we are instigating a form of shunning. </p><p></p><p>Shunning is punishing, hurtful, agenda-ridden behavior, and it happens in many different ways. Bullying is a degree of shunning. Laughing or ridiculing is a degree of shunning. Shaming someone is a degree of shunning.</p><p></p><p>Shunning, in all its manifestations, is a very hurtful thing.</p><p></p><p>I don't understand why or how this weapon would be used within family systems, but it is.</p><p></p><p>Putting a toddler in time out is shunning. That is the threat and the sting in time out.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 674748, member: 17461"] I agree, Serenity. I think there is such a thing too as shunning in place that happens when we are little kids. This is the training ground for the FOG place that happens when we are openly shunned as adults. That FOG place, I think this is true, happens when old traumatic events are keyed. Shunning is a multi-level thing. It happens when we gossip. We are engaging in a form of shunning when we listen, and when we are the ones gossiping, we are instigating a form of shunning. Shunning is punishing, hurtful, agenda-ridden behavior, and it happens in many different ways. Bullying is a degree of shunning. Laughing or ridiculing is a degree of shunning. Shaming someone is a degree of shunning. Shunning, in all its manifestations, is a very hurtful thing. I don't understand why or how this weapon would be used within family systems, but it is. Putting a toddler in time out is shunning. That is the threat and the sting in time out. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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