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Another point of view on Shunning. And shunning vs. no contact
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 674901" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>If we can envision this place, this pain at the heart of us, <em>we can envision it healing. We can envision it strong and coursing with cleansing, oxygen-rich blood.</em></p><p></p><p><em>We can hear the thunder of it; hear the thunder of the good, strong musculature of our hearts.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>We are healing. Just like it says in the Kubler-Ross quote, we will most likely be healing all of our lives. Our grief is real. Our losses are real, palpable things. It will make a difference for us to envision these lonely feelings, that pierced to the heart feeling, as what it feels like to heal.</p><p></p><p>This imagery will make us strong.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>It is probable that before we recognized these pierced-heart feelings, we funneled them back to hurt ourselves in our self concepts.</p><p></p><p>Let's not do that, this year.</p><p></p><p>I was thinking about the way I suffered through all of Thanksgiving. It was the strangest, most hurtful thing, because I did not have words to name it. I had no way to define it.</p><p></p><p>I had no imagery to heal it.</p><p></p><p>Now, we do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 674901, member: 17461"] If we can envision this place, this pain at the heart of us, [I]we can envision it healing. We can envision it strong and coursing with cleansing, oxygen-rich blood.[/I] [I]We can hear the thunder of it; hear the thunder of the good, strong musculature of our hearts. [/I] We are healing. Just like it says in the Kubler-Ross quote, we will most likely be healing all of our lives. Our grief is real. Our losses are real, palpable things. It will make a difference for us to envision these lonely feelings, that pierced to the heart feeling, as what it feels like to heal. This imagery will make us strong. [I][/I] Cedar It is probable that before we recognized these pierced-heart feelings, we funneled them back to hurt ourselves in our self concepts. Let's not do that, this year. I was thinking about the way I suffered through all of Thanksgiving. It was the strangest, most hurtful thing, because I did not have words to name it. I had no way to define it. I had no imagery to heal it. Now, we do. [/QUOTE]
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