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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 324779" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I dont think they can understand how betrayed people feel by their lying until it happens to them. I know I didnt and I know Cory didnt until it started happening to us. Boy did parenting bring me up cold, hard and fast! It did a whole lot to put the brakes on my manipulative behaviors and my lying. It made me grow up. I guess that is be duh...lol. I had my own behaviors being thrown back in my face in the form of my kids.</p><p></p><p>With Cory, his child isnt in anyway like him so he doesnt get to taste that side, but he does get to feel the sting of gfgdom with his friends. They have lied to him, stolen from him and caused him grief. It always brings him up short. He is amazed that someone would do that to him. He feels betrayed. I tell him..now you know how Dad and I felt when you did that to us. How does it feel Cory to have your things stolen? How does it feel to have someone you trust lie to you? He doesnt like it and now he makes a very concerted effort to not break out trust again. Im sure he tells small lies...we all do..but he wont steal from us or tell us something untrue if we ask flat out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 324779, member: 1514"] I dont think they can understand how betrayed people feel by their lying until it happens to them. I know I didnt and I know Cory didnt until it started happening to us. Boy did parenting bring me up cold, hard and fast! It did a whole lot to put the brakes on my manipulative behaviors and my lying. It made me grow up. I guess that is be duh...lol. I had my own behaviors being thrown back in my face in the form of my kids. With Cory, his child isnt in anyway like him so he doesnt get to taste that side, but he does get to feel the sting of gfgdom with his friends. They have lied to him, stolen from him and caused him grief. It always brings him up short. He is amazed that someone would do that to him. He feels betrayed. I tell him..now you know how Dad and I felt when you did that to us. How does it feel Cory to have your things stolen? How does it feel to have someone you trust lie to you? He doesnt like it and now he makes a very concerted effort to not break out trust again. Im sure he tells small lies...we all do..but he wont steal from us or tell us something untrue if we ask flat out. [/QUOTE]
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