EXACTLY!
Malika, you've got one instant ADHD diagnosis, one instant nothing is wrong diagnosis and one Freudian nonsensical diagnosis. Each of thes was done in just a few minutes with no actual evaluations done. I'm sure you can find some of these evaluations online for free and do a better evaluation yourself. A dart board would do a better job than these yahoos! I know the one that was done on my kids was online because I looked it up (Vanderbilt II I think)
in my opinion what you're looking for is a second opinion. One to confirm that first tentative diagnosis that you received. *MAYBE* the reason you're not getting it is because that's not really what J's issue is?