I honestly cant tell you what to do....But I was horribly shocked to read that an Occupational Therapist (OT) doesnt know about sensory integration.....!!!!!!
Please try and get as many info as possible on it....the one book called The out of sync child....explains it all and the other book called The out of sync child can have fun is really great!
Please try and find help regarding sensory processing disorder (SPD) and also for auditory processing! This will make a huge difference in your life!
They also teach your child ways to cope with stress......and all that. We have for example a kind of hammock that is made from spandex and is a 3 layer...its suspended from the roof in our playroom.....the Occupational Therapist (OT) recommendation....wwhen my kids feels sensory seeking or overload they go and climb in it to calm themselves...it gives them a womb space.....food issues.....If a child avoid some food it can be because of sensory sensitivity or chewing stuff, like shirts or mouthing stuff...he his sensory seeking, trying to modulate himself.....rocking is also sensory seeking and self modulation, humming to himself all the time is to try and cut out background noice, not making eye contact can be because of sensory sensitivity....The lists go on and on.......