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Antisocial Personality Disorder Diagnosis of my 18 year old son
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<blockquote data-quote="asldogs" data-source="post: 433058" data-attributes="member: 12055"><p>Well, my attempt to talk to him about plans and preparation for the move... did not go well but did not go as badly as I feared. </p><p>Me: grab a bowl of cereal and come sit down, we need to talk. he didn't like the healthy cereal options I have now that I don't buy his preferred cereal anymore and said he wasn't hungry.</p><p>Me: do you have plans, do you know where you're moving?</p><p>Son: yes</p><p>Me: may I know what they are?</p><p>Son: why do you care, you haven't.....</p><p>Me: where are you going?</p><p>Son: gage (his questionable buddy)</p><p>Me: have you talked to his family? (gage is a jr in high school living with parent or guardian)</p><p>Son: (suspect a lie here) yes, they know and are fine with it.</p><p>Me: when are you moving?</p><p>Son: (anger frustration beginning to show) I don't know MOM.</p><p>Me: Son, that's why we are having this talk now. to plan and prepare. I don't want you to be escorted out with only your shirt on your back and no where to go. </p><p>Son: don't call me son. I'm not your son.</p><p>Me: I know you are angry right now, but you are my son and I want to help make this transition as easy as possible. How can I help?</p><p>Son: I don't want your help.</p><p>Me: ok... when are you leaving?</p><p>Son: I don't know.... this weekend.</p><p>Me: no... it needs to be Wednesday afternoon or Thursday morning. (when the cop friend is available to come by)</p><p>Son: fine, Thursday. gage has school this week and his first day of summer is Thursday.</p><p>Me: what are your plans for packing? You can pack everything and take some things with you, store the rest here or take everything with you.</p><p>Son: no reply</p><p>Me: I will pack, if you don't.</p><p>Son: no reply</p><p>Me: I know you might not accept this right now but I would like to have you come back for dinners together...</p><p>Son: That will NEVER happen!</p><p>Me: .. ok</p><p></p><p>He went into the bathroom for a LONG time. crying? Then left the house with his skate board wearing black jeans when it's 90 degrees outside and never ate.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="asldogs, post: 433058, member: 12055"] Well, my attempt to talk to him about plans and preparation for the move... did not go well but did not go as badly as I feared. Me: grab a bowl of cereal and come sit down, we need to talk. he didn't like the healthy cereal options I have now that I don't buy his preferred cereal anymore and said he wasn't hungry. Me: do you have plans, do you know where you're moving? Son: yes Me: may I know what they are? Son: why do you care, you haven't..... Me: where are you going? Son: gage (his questionable buddy) Me: have you talked to his family? (gage is a jr in high school living with parent or guardian) Son: (suspect a lie here) yes, they know and are fine with it. Me: when are you moving? Son: (anger frustration beginning to show) I don't know MOM. Me: Son, that's why we are having this talk now. to plan and prepare. I don't want you to be escorted out with only your shirt on your back and no where to go. Son: don't call me son. I'm not your son. Me: I know you are angry right now, but you are my son and I want to help make this transition as easy as possible. How can I help? Son: I don't want your help. Me: ok... when are you leaving? Son: I don't know.... this weekend. Me: no... it needs to be Wednesday afternoon or Thursday morning. (when the cop friend is available to come by) Son: fine, Thursday. gage has school this week and his first day of summer is Thursday. Me: what are your plans for packing? You can pack everything and take some things with you, store the rest here or take everything with you. Son: no reply Me: I will pack, if you don't. Son: no reply Me: I know you might not accept this right now but I would like to have you come back for dinners together... Son: That will NEVER happen! Me: .. ok He went into the bathroom for a LONG time. crying? Then left the house with his skate board wearing black jeans when it's 90 degrees outside and never ate. [/QUOTE]
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