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Antisocial Personality Disorder Diagnosis of my 18 year old son
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 433112" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You handled that discussion very very well. One thing that you might do is put together a list of soup kitchens, food pantries and homeless shelters in your area. Keep a copy by your phone or where youusually sit to answer the phone, in an envelope or something so you don't see it all the time, and keep some copies in an easy to grab place like a specific drawer. Give him a copy when he leaves, and when he calls because he has no where to sleep, give him another copy. If you let him back in even for a night you will have a hard time getting rid of him and a harder time replacing all that he will steal and/or trash. Hardest will be handling the feeling that you were violated by someone you love.</p><p></p><p>You need to change teh locks. He likely has a copy somewhere, or he gave one to a friend. It isn't fun to think of this stuff. Also, any window you want to open or that has a broken latch needs to be made so it cannot open more than a couple of inchesor at all. If you have a window next to a sliding glass door or a door with a window near the lock/handle, make sure that you have those locked tight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 433112, member: 1233"] You handled that discussion very very well. One thing that you might do is put together a list of soup kitchens, food pantries and homeless shelters in your area. Keep a copy by your phone or where youusually sit to answer the phone, in an envelope or something so you don't see it all the time, and keep some copies in an easy to grab place like a specific drawer. Give him a copy when he leaves, and when he calls because he has no where to sleep, give him another copy. If you let him back in even for a night you will have a hard time getting rid of him and a harder time replacing all that he will steal and/or trash. Hardest will be handling the feeling that you were violated by someone you love. You need to change teh locks. He likely has a copy somewhere, or he gave one to a friend. It isn't fun to think of this stuff. Also, any window you want to open or that has a broken latch needs to be made so it cannot open more than a couple of inchesor at all. If you have a window next to a sliding glass door or a door with a window near the lock/handle, make sure that you have those locked tight. [/QUOTE]
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