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Antisocial Personality Disorder Diagnosis of my 18 year old son
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<blockquote data-quote="elizabrary" data-source="post: 434176" data-attributes="member: 11235"><p>I would not communicate with the family unless there is an emergency. Usually these people have problems of their own or are crazy nice and are believing everything your son tells them about you. I went through this with my daughter. She told lots of people I put her and her newborn baby out on the street at 11:00 at night in a snowstorm. Of course the reality was I found out she was back in contact with her abuser and that she could not stay in my home if she chose to maintain a relationship with him, so she left. She has told people all kinds of crazy stories about how awful I am. It used to really bother me, but now I let it go. Also, those people who take these kids in usually find out what they're really like. He'll behave there for awhile, but will start pushing boundaries as soon as possible. These kids are masters at finding people they can manipulate. </p><p> </p><p>You are in the midst of the hardest time right now, and it IS grief. You have lost someone you love, so of course you will feel bad. The last time Kat did this (and left the house looking like 20 crack addicts had been there) I spent the weekend cleaning up. I bought myself a birthday cake at the store and had cake and wine for dinner. It was so ridiculous it cheered me up. So do something to make yourself feel better and stay as busy as you can. Go to a movie, take a walk, read a book, call a friend, work, anything you can think of to keep the focus on YOU!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elizabrary, post: 434176, member: 11235"] I would not communicate with the family unless there is an emergency. Usually these people have problems of their own or are crazy nice and are believing everything your son tells them about you. I went through this with my daughter. She told lots of people I put her and her newborn baby out on the street at 11:00 at night in a snowstorm. Of course the reality was I found out she was back in contact with her abuser and that she could not stay in my home if she chose to maintain a relationship with him, so she left. She has told people all kinds of crazy stories about how awful I am. It used to really bother me, but now I let it go. Also, those people who take these kids in usually find out what they're really like. He'll behave there for awhile, but will start pushing boundaries as soon as possible. These kids are masters at finding people they can manipulate. You are in the midst of the hardest time right now, and it IS grief. You have lost someone you love, so of course you will feel bad. The last time Kat did this (and left the house looking like 20 crack addicts had been there) I spent the weekend cleaning up. I bought myself a birthday cake at the store and had cake and wine for dinner. It was so ridiculous it cheered me up. So do something to make yourself feel better and stay as busy as you can. Go to a movie, take a walk, read a book, call a friend, work, anything you can think of to keep the focus on YOU! [/QUOTE]
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