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<blockquote data-quote="Lulu" data-source="post: 141232" data-attributes="member: 4493"><p>Welcome! I have a 4yo who has defiance issues, too. So trying AND tiring. I am reading the Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child and he uses a reward system too, but with other steps prelimary to it. I've just started the book, so I can't say much about it yet, but the idea he has of breaking down expected behaviors into little increments and then shaping them through reward sounds promising. You might want to pick that one up for a skim.</p><p></p><p>I would say (just out of my own experience, not because I'm an expert) that rewarding (or throwing out) the entire day may be too much. Why not just pick one behavior you want to improve and have a reward chart for that for a week? </p><p></p><p>Glad to have you here, but sorry that you had to seek us out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lulu, post: 141232, member: 4493"] Welcome! I have a 4yo who has defiance issues, too. So trying AND tiring. I am reading the Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child and he uses a reward system too, but with other steps prelimary to it. I've just started the book, so I can't say much about it yet, but the idea he has of breaking down expected behaviors into little increments and then shaping them through reward sounds promising. You might want to pick that one up for a skim. I would say (just out of my own experience, not because I'm an expert) that rewarding (or throwing out) the entire day may be too much. Why not just pick one behavior you want to improve and have a reward chart for that for a week? Glad to have you here, but sorry that you had to seek us out. [/QUOTE]
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