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any info. on 30 day notice for 17 1/2 yr. olds in NJ?
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<blockquote data-quote="Mikey" data-source="post: 141562" data-attributes="member: 3579"><p>Peg, not sure about the 30 day notice either. You're asking him to leave for a reason, would you be inviting a month of problems by giving him advanced notice?</p><p></p><p>My bro used to be a landlord, and "per the law" had to give notice several times over before finally evicting someone. Needless to say, he usually had to spend a lot of time repairing holes in the walls, cleaning carpets that had been used as urinals, replacing plumbing that had been damaged, etc....</p><p></p><p>Not to say that your child would do that, but why take a chance? In my very humble opinion, I think it's admirable that you're getting him set up with his own place prior to asking him to leave. One alternative would be to get the new space set up, and when he's not around move his essentials into the new space and then change your locks. </p><p></p><p>When he arrives home, you can inform him of the new living arrangements, give him directions to his new space, and make arrangements for him to come back and retrieve whatever's left. My bro often had to do that on evictions - wait until he knew they were out of the apartment, then go in with the movers and a deputy while they were gone.</p><p></p><p>For that matter, local sherriff's are usually available to assist with "real" evictions. If you fear any kind of issues with actually telling him, you could always retain a deputy to assist with the informal eviction. The deputy wouldn't even have to be present, or even be visible - they could simply be there for an hour or two, just around the corner, to assist if needed. Hopefully it won't come to that, but again it's just another option.</p><p></p><p>I hope this works out well for the both of you.</p><p></p><p>Mikey</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mikey, post: 141562, member: 3579"] Peg, not sure about the 30 day notice either. You're asking him to leave for a reason, would you be inviting a month of problems by giving him advanced notice? My bro used to be a landlord, and "per the law" had to give notice several times over before finally evicting someone. Needless to say, he usually had to spend a lot of time repairing holes in the walls, cleaning carpets that had been used as urinals, replacing plumbing that had been damaged, etc.... Not to say that your child would do that, but why take a chance? In my very humble opinion, I think it's admirable that you're getting him set up with his own place prior to asking him to leave. One alternative would be to get the new space set up, and when he's not around move his essentials into the new space and then change your locks. When he arrives home, you can inform him of the new living arrangements, give him directions to his new space, and make arrangements for him to come back and retrieve whatever's left. My bro often had to do that on evictions - wait until he knew they were out of the apartment, then go in with the movers and a deputy while they were gone. For that matter, local sherriff's are usually available to assist with "real" evictions. If you fear any kind of issues with actually telling him, you could always retain a deputy to assist with the informal eviction. The deputy wouldn't even have to be present, or even be visible - they could simply be there for an hour or two, just around the corner, to assist if needed. Hopefully it won't come to that, but again it's just another option. I hope this works out well for the both of you. Mikey [/QUOTE]
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