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any info. on 30 day notice for 17 1/2 yr. olds in NJ?
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 142682" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Peg, I would just let him know that he will be 18 soon and should start looking for housing, explaining exactly how much you will help him in moving out. Don't worry about giving him notice unless he flat out states he won't leave. Odds are that once he knows you'll help him pay for something, he'll be so anxious to leave everyone's head will spin. If not, you can always let him know he has no choice in the matter.</p><p> </p><p>As to talking to the police, I found the best way to get answers is to make an appointment with a captain or the police chief. Get the policy from a true officer of the department, not the men who work the streets. That way, if you have to call for help, you can say Chief So and So or Cpt. Such and Such said this was to be handled this way.</p><p> </p><p>Good luck. I think forcing your child out is always traumatic. I know it was for me but mine is now settled in an apartment. I'm just hoping she does okay there. No matter what, she's not coming back home and I have to live with that decision. You'll have to live with yours, but as long as you know you're doing what is best for all concerned, it's all you can do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 142682, member: 3626"] Peg, I would just let him know that he will be 18 soon and should start looking for housing, explaining exactly how much you will help him in moving out. Don't worry about giving him notice unless he flat out states he won't leave. Odds are that once he knows you'll help him pay for something, he'll be so anxious to leave everyone's head will spin. If not, you can always let him know he has no choice in the matter. As to talking to the police, I found the best way to get answers is to make an appointment with a captain or the police chief. Get the policy from a true officer of the department, not the men who work the streets. That way, if you have to call for help, you can say Chief So and So or Cpt. Such and Such said this was to be handled this way. Good luck. I think forcing your child out is always traumatic. I know it was for me but mine is now settled in an apartment. I'm just hoping she does okay there. No matter what, she's not coming back home and I have to live with that decision. You'll have to live with yours, but as long as you know you're doing what is best for all concerned, it's all you can do. [/QUOTE]
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