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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 419787" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I say this - this way because -------</p><p> </p><p>IF you start with </p><p> </p><p>difficult child WILL DO THIS - NOT this </p><p>difficult child WILL DO THIS - NOT this - </p><p> </p><p>About right here? Shes' going to LOOSE interest - and not read any further and you loose HER too. </p><p> </p><p>If you make it - </p><p> </p><p>difficult child WILL GET THIS....when she completes THIS.........and we will XXX this .....</p><p> </p><p>This statement says to a difficult child mind - </p><p> </p><p>Okay Here's your PRIZE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Here's how you get it.......oh and MOM and DAD....have to do work too.....</p><p>PRIZEEEEEEEEE........(work 2nd)..........someone else has to do work too...I'm not alone. </p><p> </p><p>See? </p><p> </p><p>PRIZEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 1st......I see that as a difficult child now you have my attention......OH and yeah - I see - work OKAY...and hahah...Other will help. Huh.....I'm not doing this myself. </p><p> </p><p>But the PRIZE comes first.......</p><p> </p><p>It is the EXACT same as </p><p> </p><p><span style="color: red">difficult child WILL NOT TALK IN CLASS, BECAUSE THIS IS THE RULE.</span> But if you put difficult child WILL NOT - first? like 20 times ? I promise you by the third rule? You loose them. They're bored and it's must MORE rules.....more blah blah, blah....even if you follow it up with THE PRIZE...they don't care - because they get so used to NOT making it, not being able to follow the rules - I mean they aren't dumb - they know they break rules all the time. They know they get into trouble a lot. So why bother? </p><p> </p><p> </p><p><span style="color: red">THURSDAY if difficult child has not talked in class there will be candy. (by this point? they don't care - they know they won't get the candy and they don't care who is giving it out, who had to buy it....they just know they won't be getting any) </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: royalblue">Try putting the prize FIRST...see if it helps any. Them in the middle.....and YOU as <em><strong>part</strong></em> of the solution and help! </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #4169e1">Best of luck! </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 419787, member: 4964"] I say this - this way because ------- IF you start with difficult child WILL DO THIS - NOT this difficult child WILL DO THIS - NOT this - About right here? Shes' going to LOOSE interest - and not read any further and you loose HER too. If you make it - difficult child WILL GET THIS....when she completes THIS.........and we will XXX this ..... This statement says to a difficult child mind - Okay Here's your PRIZE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Here's how you get it.......oh and MOM and DAD....have to do work too..... PRIZEEEEEEEEE........(work 2nd)..........someone else has to do work too...I'm not alone. See? PRIZEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 1st......I see that as a difficult child now you have my attention......OH and yeah - I see - work OKAY...and hahah...Other will help. Huh.....I'm not doing this myself. But the PRIZE comes first....... It is the EXACT same as [COLOR=red]difficult child WILL NOT TALK IN CLASS, BECAUSE THIS IS THE RULE.[/COLOR] But if you put difficult child WILL NOT - first? like 20 times ? I promise you by the third rule? You loose them. They're bored and it's must MORE rules.....more blah blah, blah....even if you follow it up with THE PRIZE...they don't care - because they get so used to NOT making it, not being able to follow the rules - I mean they aren't dumb - they know they break rules all the time. They know they get into trouble a lot. So why bother? [COLOR=red]THURSDAY if difficult child has not talked in class there will be candy. (by this point? they don't care - they know they won't get the candy and they don't care who is giving it out, who had to buy it....they just know they won't be getting any) [/COLOR] [COLOR=#ff0000][/COLOR] [COLOR=royalblue]Try putting the prize FIRST...see if it helps any. Them in the middle.....and YOU as [I][B]part[/B][/I] of the solution and help! [/COLOR] [COLOR=#4169e1][/COLOR] [COLOR=#4169e1]Best of luck! [/COLOR] [COLOR=#ff0000][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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