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Any Warrior Moms Reading Right Now? Need Some Quick Help...
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 419824" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Thats just it - Daisy has to find out WHAT it is that difficult child wants (I used car for an example) She may want Disney or a stereo or whatever it is. </p><p> </p><p>Each family has to model it's own Prize, HOW, Help....but we learned REWARD first - then consequence with difficult child always worked better. Always the postive before any negative whether it's in rules, or communication. difficult child wasn't motivated by ANYTHING. But in talking to him? Postive first then rule. Wasn't like he was bound to listen a whole lot anyway - this WAS Dude we're talking about, but at least when we starting talking postive first then rule? He at least listened. It was a start.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 419824, member: 4964"] Thats just it - Daisy has to find out WHAT it is that difficult child wants (I used car for an example) She may want Disney or a stereo or whatever it is. Each family has to model it's own Prize, HOW, Help....but we learned REWARD first - then consequence with difficult child always worked better. Always the postive before any negative whether it's in rules, or communication. difficult child wasn't motivated by ANYTHING. But in talking to him? Postive first then rule. Wasn't like he was bound to listen a whole lot anyway - this WAS Dude we're talking about, but at least when we starting talking postive first then rule? He at least listened. It was a start. [/QUOTE]
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