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Anybody else have a grandchild, an adult child, and a crazy ex?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 541176" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi and thanks. She hasn't done anything other than keep him up late and yell at him and he has told his lawyer. He wants to get the divorce over with first, then see what he can do. Little S. loves his mother. It's tricky. Although lately he has been crying for his daddy when X is the one who drives him to the babysitter etc. </p><p></p><p>Sportsfan has been looking through her things when she's gone for evidence of, say, drug use, but he hasn't found anything. If he ever does, he will go right back to court. He can't afford a PI. We talked about it. His father is already paying for the lawyer. We can't afford to help financially. I wish we could. </p><p></p><p>X is only moving fifteen minutes away from Sportsfan and he has already told her that he will take Little S any time if she needs a break. Right now he is trying hard to be cordial so that she doesn't back off on the agreement, which is very favorable to him. And it's favoable to Little S. because if Sportsfan can stay in the house, Little S. can often be at the place he loves. Also, Sportsfan will have extra pocket money for Little S. We think X believes her new boyfrirend is going to marry her and they will live happily ever after and she won't have to worry about her bills. She just wants out. </p><p></p><p>Sportsfan is documenting X's behaviors. You can't just say, "X is not acting in kid's best interests." You have to prove it. </p><p></p><p>I'm going to try to get down to St. Louis very soon to help Little S. He isn't getting fussed over much when he is with X. He is being dragged around with X's "new friends" and boyfriend and it's not about HIM, it's about the adults. I want to spend a few weeks making it all about him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 541176, member: 1550"] Hi and thanks. She hasn't done anything other than keep him up late and yell at him and he has told his lawyer. He wants to get the divorce over with first, then see what he can do. Little S. loves his mother. It's tricky. Although lately he has been crying for his daddy when X is the one who drives him to the babysitter etc. Sportsfan has been looking through her things when she's gone for evidence of, say, drug use, but he hasn't found anything. If he ever does, he will go right back to court. He can't afford a PI. We talked about it. His father is already paying for the lawyer. We can't afford to help financially. I wish we could. X is only moving fifteen minutes away from Sportsfan and he has already told her that he will take Little S any time if she needs a break. Right now he is trying hard to be cordial so that she doesn't back off on the agreement, which is very favorable to him. And it's favoable to Little S. because if Sportsfan can stay in the house, Little S. can often be at the place he loves. Also, Sportsfan will have extra pocket money for Little S. We think X believes her new boyfrirend is going to marry her and they will live happily ever after and she won't have to worry about her bills. She just wants out. Sportsfan is documenting X's behaviors. You can't just say, "X is not acting in kid's best interests." You have to prove it. I'm going to try to get down to St. Louis very soon to help Little S. He isn't getting fussed over much when he is with X. He is being dragged around with X's "new friends" and boyfriend and it's not about HIM, it's about the adults. I want to spend a few weeks making it all about him. [/QUOTE]
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