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Anyone else dealing with a pathological/compulsive liar?
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 429111" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Insane... Yeah. Well, part of the problem is that, from the time BM took off in July 2002 until July 2007 (Onyxx ages 7 to 12), Onyxx was so desperate to have her mom love her that she would do anything - <em>anything</em> - for that love. Including lying for BM, covering up for her... And... If she didn't perform well enough, she would be abused, sometimes physically, sometimes verbally/mentally. Now add in that she saw BM get away with lying repeatedly. She's seen the justice system throw her Daddy in jail, when he was trying to protect his children. When she testified that she did not want to see BM unsupervised (she wanted to - we were skeptical), the judge then informed all of us that she (Onyxx) had had too much control over the whole custody issue and husband spent 3 days in jail for denial of parenting time. When the order came out, it said <em>specifically</em> that since BM had returned Jett late (I belive it was 90 minutes) on Mother's Day, this constituted husband denying BM's parenting time. No, you won't be able to read that and make sense of it.</p><p> </p><p>But by all of this, Onyxx learned it was a GOOD thing to lie. And it just escalates. I love her - but I do not trust her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 429111, member: 6705"] Insane... Yeah. Well, part of the problem is that, from the time BM took off in July 2002 until July 2007 (Onyxx ages 7 to 12), Onyxx was so desperate to have her mom love her that she would do anything - [I]anything[/I] - for that love. Including lying for BM, covering up for her... And... If she didn't perform well enough, she would be abused, sometimes physically, sometimes verbally/mentally. Now add in that she saw BM get away with lying repeatedly. She's seen the justice system throw her Daddy in jail, when he was trying to protect his children. When she testified that she did not want to see BM unsupervised (she wanted to - we were skeptical), the judge then informed all of us that she (Onyxx) had had too much control over the whole custody issue and husband spent 3 days in jail for denial of parenting time. When the order came out, it said [I]specifically[/I] that since BM had returned Jett late (I belive it was 90 minutes) on Mother's Day, this constituted husband denying BM's parenting time. No, you won't be able to read that and make sense of it. But by all of this, Onyxx learned it was a GOOD thing to lie. And it just escalates. I love her - but I do not trust her. [/QUOTE]
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