My son does not put himself into situations like that, but I can see where you're coming from. (She sounds a bit like me when I was her age. Except that there were 5 of us, and at any given moment, you're either going to get a compliment, rave reviews, a punch to the jaw, laughed at, or have your candy stolen.)
I think ... or maybe I just hope that she is learning to steel and steady herself through all of this, instead of making it worse, Know what I mean?? Does she have a therapist who can walk her through the emotions and put a better spin on it?