Hound Dog, don't know what the problem with sound is, but here's the url if you want to hear it. I put a space after the www. so the forum wouldn't automatically embed it. I don't think she'll ever be American Idol material, but considering I can't carry a tune even if it has a handle on it, she's got some raw talent.
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I think you're right about the trying part, and I encourage her to try ALL the time with everything. I also go back to the successes and use them to encourage her when she feels paralyzed. I just find it odd that with something like this she tries on her own without any encouragement.
Marg, funny you mentioned the disguise thing. DD1 INSISTED we go to the costume "closet" to find her a hat. She NEEDED a hat. Said she felt more 'hidden' with a hat. Pickings were slim, but she was happy with the one we found.
Thanks everyone. I think Mamma has to learn to 'chill' Sheesh! I'm having anxiety over her anxieties. That can't be good 
