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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 602218" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Skotti, wish it had been that simple here, but ex is very controlling and I will give her this...she will never give up little J. She wants him to be in a new family with her and her live-in. However, she is doing it in not-so-smart ways like leaving a paper trail for where she has tried to cut my son out of Little J's life. In Missouri, your attempt to build a new family with a new honeybuns does NOT get equal treatment to fostering a good relationship with ex. In fact, her honey is a legal stranger to Little J. He will probably be investigated though since he is around Little J. a lot. </p><p></p><p>Legally, ex has to try to work with my son and to make sure she does not alienate Little J. from him. Fathers and Mothers come before live-ins.</p><p></p><p> That's a big no-no here. You are expected to understand and foster a strong, loving relationship with the other parent or you can get into trouble. My son, who is much brighter, has not followed suit. He is actually a very involved, good father and also would never ever leave his son. Not for any reason. He actually gave up his house to move closer to his ex so that he is always near Little J. That is seen as a good thing.</p><p></p><p>We shall see how all this shakes out with the GAL. She has more power than God over this case and can authorize any sort of psychological testing she wants, make as many home visits (even unexpected ones) as she wants and be as intrusive as she likes. It is an interesting look at the justice system, from a Family Law point of view.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 602218, member: 1550"] Skotti, wish it had been that simple here, but ex is very controlling and I will give her this...she will never give up little J. She wants him to be in a new family with her and her live-in. However, she is doing it in not-so-smart ways like leaving a paper trail for where she has tried to cut my son out of Little J's life. In Missouri, your attempt to build a new family with a new honeybuns does NOT get equal treatment to fostering a good relationship with ex. In fact, her honey is a legal stranger to Little J. He will probably be investigated though since he is around Little J. a lot. Legally, ex has to try to work with my son and to make sure she does not alienate Little J. from him. Fathers and Mothers come before live-ins. That's a big no-no here. You are expected to understand and foster a strong, loving relationship with the other parent or you can get into trouble. My son, who is much brighter, has not followed suit. He is actually a very involved, good father and also would never ever leave his son. Not for any reason. He actually gave up his house to move closer to his ex so that he is always near Little J. That is seen as a good thing. We shall see how all this shakes out with the GAL. She has more power than God over this case and can authorize any sort of psychological testing she wants, make as many home visits (even unexpected ones) as she wants and be as intrusive as she likes. It is an interesting look at the justice system, from a Family Law point of view. [/QUOTE]
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