Nicotine is in his. That's a big deal.
If she doesn't want any type of smoke in her house, like I don't, then she shouldn't have to have it there. It is her house/ her rules. Adult kids who live with us and don't like our rules can find their own place to live. Nobody can smoke anything in our house because we don't like smoke and it is our house. Even friends can't. Nobody.
In our own houses, the home should be our sanctuary. Our kids can buy their own sanctuaries with their own rules. Or find someplace else to sleep, wherever that may be.
It is up to each of us what is okay in our homes and our adult kids who still live there need to listen.
