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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 710016" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>dayatatime, thank you for reminding me about this thread. I learned a lot from it.Do you know this about me, too? About 10 years ago after a lifetime of driving I lost confidence driving (except for on surface streets inside of the city)?</p><p></p><p>I have almost lost hope that I can learn to have confidence again. But, one percent, I can say I still do.</p><p>I am the same but my defense is 100 percent the opposite. I believe I will only have the money for right now, so I might as well as buy everything I might ever need now. Or something similar: that I am not worth anything...and "things" will demonstrate that I have a little bit of value. So I also working against myself. Defining as valuable...myself...because I do not feel I am valuable enough. Like you are keeping 100 percent control of yourself, on a leash, with the belief (unspoken) if you give yourself freedom or respect or care--you will run amok.</p><p></p><p>When we could begin from the point of feeling self-control and self-worth. Beginning from this place. Not the opposite.</p><p></p><p> This is what I mean. There have to be practices and affirmations that help us begin with the affirmation of self...not with archaic and self-defeating misconceptions....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 710016, member: 18958"] dayatatime, thank you for reminding me about this thread. I learned a lot from it.Do you know this about me, too? About 10 years ago after a lifetime of driving I lost confidence driving (except for on surface streets inside of the city)? I have almost lost hope that I can learn to have confidence again. But, one percent, I can say I still do. I am the same but my defense is 100 percent the opposite. I believe I will only have the money for right now, so I might as well as buy everything I might ever need now. Or something similar: that I am not worth anything...and "things" will demonstrate that I have a little bit of value. So I also working against myself. Defining as valuable...myself...because I do not feel I am valuable enough. Like you are keeping 100 percent control of yourself, on a leash, with the belief (unspoken) if you give yourself freedom or respect or care--you will run amok. When we could begin from the point of feeling self-control and self-worth. Beginning from this place. Not the opposite. This is what I mean. There have to be practices and affirmations that help us begin with the affirmation of self...not with archaic and self-defeating misconceptions.... [/QUOTE]
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