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<blockquote data-quote="Lothlorien" data-source="post: 84410" data-attributes="member: 1024"><p>Perhaps the parents are not aware of what happened? You did say that Kidx locked the door and did this, no?</p><p></p><p>Perhaps you should call them and discuss what happened. Tell them that you appreciate that they watched your son. However, if the need arises for bathing, you'd appreciate them being carefully watched or bathed separately. If they can't handle the truth, then end the friendship.</p><p></p><p>Exactly what are you looking for on this board? Do you have other children? Do you have a child who has special needs? It appears that you are just looking for answers from parents who have children with issues? I guess that would be commendable, but we, here are a much more compassionate group to parents who have children with issues, so you are going to hear answers from our point of view, not from the point of view of parents of kids who do not have particular issues. </p><p></p><p>You see, you cannot beging to imagine what it is like dealing with a child with issues until you actually have a child like this. I was a snickerer. I was an adult who used to think that the poorly behaved and out of control child in a store was the result of poor parenting. That simply is just not the case all the time. More and more it is the result of the child having a particular disorder. Now, I have much more compassion for the mother of a child whose child is screaming frantically in the middle of Walmart, she is flustered and embarassed and is getting dirty looks from all around her.</p><p></p><p>Your friends did you a favor by watching your son for you. Have compassion for them. Make them aware of the problems without coming across judgemental. Give them the chance to respond. If you choose not to allow your son to play with him, fine....but don't necessarily judge the parents. There are many parents on this board, including the former owner, whose child had encoporesis. It's embarrassing to say the least, but it certainly isn't the parents fault.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lothlorien, post: 84410, member: 1024"] Perhaps the parents are not aware of what happened? You did say that Kidx locked the door and did this, no? Perhaps you should call them and discuss what happened. Tell them that you appreciate that they watched your son. However, if the need arises for bathing, you'd appreciate them being carefully watched or bathed separately. If they can't handle the truth, then end the friendship. Exactly what are you looking for on this board? Do you have other children? Do you have a child who has special needs? It appears that you are just looking for answers from parents who have children with issues? I guess that would be commendable, but we, here are a much more compassionate group to parents who have children with issues, so you are going to hear answers from our point of view, not from the point of view of parents of kids who do not have particular issues. You see, you cannot beging to imagine what it is like dealing with a child with issues until you actually have a child like this. I was a snickerer. I was an adult who used to think that the poorly behaved and out of control child in a store was the result of poor parenting. That simply is just not the case all the time. More and more it is the result of the child having a particular disorder. Now, I have much more compassion for the mother of a child whose child is screaming frantically in the middle of Walmart, she is flustered and embarassed and is getting dirty looks from all around her. Your friends did you a favor by watching your son for you. Have compassion for them. Make them aware of the problems without coming across judgemental. Give them the chance to respond. If you choose not to allow your son to play with him, fine....but don't necessarily judge the parents. There are many parents on this board, including the former owner, whose child had encoporesis. It's embarrassing to say the least, but it certainly isn't the parents fault. [/QUOTE]
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