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<blockquote data-quote="Overwhelmed1" data-source="post: 756483" data-attributes="member: 24921"><p>I am so blessed to have found support through all of you. My story began way before I had children. I promised myself my kids would know they were loved, would be protected and believed if they came to me about anything.</p><p>I kept that promise, but in doing so did I cause other issues for them. </p><p>I keep trying to figure out where I failed them. Why aren't they out there making a life for themselves? Why are they so manipulative, hateful, dependent and angry at me. I just don't understand. </p><p>I use to love helping people, being a part of a huge family, babysitting my nieces and nephews, having family gatherings and feeling like I belonged. I don't know what happened to change that. Why I stopped being included. How does this happen? I made my mistakes but so did we all. I don't think mine were over the top where I should be discarded. </p><p>This is my life, I should rejoice in it, right? Should I even care about finding the answers. </p><p>I am such a mess. I don't feel sorry for myself, I just want to know why this all happened. </p><p>I don't think anyone has the answers but I do think I will join a group, Al Anon, AA or something once people can meet again. </p><p>Copa, thank you for all you said. I so appreciate you.</p><p>All the responses have been so kind and uplifting. I appreciate all of you.</p><p>Thank you all for getting me through this day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Overwhelmed1, post: 756483, member: 24921"] I am so blessed to have found support through all of you. My story began way before I had children. I promised myself my kids would know they were loved, would be protected and believed if they came to me about anything. I kept that promise, but in doing so did I cause other issues for them. I keep trying to figure out where I failed them. Why aren't they out there making a life for themselves? Why are they so manipulative, hateful, dependent and angry at me. I just don't understand. I use to love helping people, being a part of a huge family, babysitting my nieces and nephews, having family gatherings and feeling like I belonged. I don't know what happened to change that. Why I stopped being included. How does this happen? I made my mistakes but so did we all. I don't think mine were over the top where I should be discarded. This is my life, I should rejoice in it, right? Should I even care about finding the answers. I am such a mess. I don't feel sorry for myself, I just want to know why this all happened. I don't think anyone has the answers but I do think I will join a group, Al Anon, AA or something once people can meet again. Copa, thank you for all you said. I so appreciate you. All the responses have been so kind and uplifting. I appreciate all of you. Thank you all for getting me through this day. [/QUOTE]
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