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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 756625" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>in my opinion if he had replaced the lawn mower out of the goodness of his heart, and with honestly earned money (for me that matters...I don't want anything bought by illegal means) he would have done it long ago. I believe there is an underlying motive to his sudden out of character genorousity.</p><p></p><p>I am finished making up excuses for any of our abusive kids. I don't see any reason to think this was out of love and caring any more than I would if Kay did it. Unless they get help and truly change over years, they are abusers and not generous without strings attached.</p><p></p><p>Please keep your plans in place. Think about if you want the gift. He WILL throw it in your face when you tell him he has to leave.</p><p></p><p>Follow your gut. I am worried. Something feels off. Lots of love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 756625, member: 23706"] in my opinion if he had replaced the lawn mower out of the goodness of his heart, and with honestly earned money (for me that matters...I don't want anything bought by illegal means) he would have done it long ago. I believe there is an underlying motive to his sudden out of character genorousity. I am finished making up excuses for any of our abusive kids. I don't see any reason to think this was out of love and caring any more than I would if Kay did it. Unless they get help and truly change over years, they are abusers and not generous without strings attached. Please keep your plans in place. Think about if you want the gift. He WILL throw it in your face when you tell him he has to leave. Follow your gut. I am worried. Something feels off. Lots of love. [/QUOTE]
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