Normal
You're doing a good job in impossibly difficult circumstances. I think you've received good advice from others who've been there done that and I believe you're doing the right thing with pressing charges. And, I know how tough it all is on your heart and your marriage. We do get so used to the insanity of our difficult child's lives, normal for us is stretched out to something unrecognizable. I am sorry you are going through this, like many others on this board, I understand your plight because I have been in similar shoes. Please let us know how you are doing. I am sending you hugs and prayers that you find peace.