Busy, Thanks for the concrete advice. I will talk to my husband about a security system, and I am also figuring out what steps I want to take. I remember your posts about Kay, and am sorry you have had to deal with these things also.
I think he has or is on the verge of relapse, and I know he lost his medicaid, so I don't know about his suboxone. He isn't allowed at our home, and for a long time I would only meet him in public. If I do need to meet him it will only be in public. I also will not be answering any more calls from him.