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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 368084" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Thanks guys..........I really don't know how you got thru all that lol</p><p></p><p>Both my girls are great each in their own ways. And I love them for the people they are. They are both hurting badly right now. easy child stated on her fb page she's never felt so totally alone in her life. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Breaks my heart. But I can't bring myself to tell her she is right when defending sister in law was not right in my opinion. I know she doesn't blow off what sister in law says and does.........and does make attempts to get him to stop. But no one can make another person change what they don't want to change. And in all honesty, he's gotten much worse in the past couple of years..........or perhaps we've just grown so sick of it our tolerance is now at zero. I dunno. I know he has lots of good points......it's just that his mouth and certain behaviors are so over the top.........yeah. And his comments do hurt and such.</p><p></p><p>I can understand not going against the man you love.........yep I get that, I do. But there is a line, a line that another person doesn't cross when it comes to your family, even if that person is your husband. My own husband stepped on that line once or twice and found out very quickly if he wished to be married it better not happen again, period. When it comes down to the line of disrespecting people you love.......I'm sorry but it doesn't matter if you're married to the person. Not in my opinion anyway. Because if they feel that way.....then how do they really feel about you?? Ya know? I know she feels she has to live with him and all but..........I don't know.......if husband had done something like that with one of my sisters......all hades would've broken loose and husband would've been the one catching it, not my sister. Would not matter the cause, it would be because he totally disrespected her as a person and as my sister.</p><p></p><p>And as long as easy child is determined to defend him she won't see it that way, won't understand Nichole's side. Nichole doesn't want to budge because she doesn't want subjected to any more of sister in law's abusive behavior toward her. </p><p></p><p>And I hurt for both of them. Thanks to sister in law behaving like such a major jerk (being kind here) both my girls are hurting and feeling abandoned by each other. And that makes me livid!!!</p><p></p><p>So I'm trying to keep out of it and hope each of them sees the other's side of things and can talk it out eventually. Maybe it will be a growing/learning experience for each of them. I just hope they get this mended soon cuz it's killing me. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 368084, member: 84"] Thanks guys..........I really don't know how you got thru all that lol Both my girls are great each in their own ways. And I love them for the people they are. They are both hurting badly right now. easy child stated on her fb page she's never felt so totally alone in her life. :( Breaks my heart. But I can't bring myself to tell her she is right when defending sister in law was not right in my opinion. I know she doesn't blow off what sister in law says and does.........and does make attempts to get him to stop. But no one can make another person change what they don't want to change. And in all honesty, he's gotten much worse in the past couple of years..........or perhaps we've just grown so sick of it our tolerance is now at zero. I dunno. I know he has lots of good points......it's just that his mouth and certain behaviors are so over the top.........yeah. And his comments do hurt and such. I can understand not going against the man you love.........yep I get that, I do. But there is a line, a line that another person doesn't cross when it comes to your family, even if that person is your husband. My own husband stepped on that line once or twice and found out very quickly if he wished to be married it better not happen again, period. When it comes down to the line of disrespecting people you love.......I'm sorry but it doesn't matter if you're married to the person. Not in my opinion anyway. Because if they feel that way.....then how do they really feel about you?? Ya know? I know she feels she has to live with him and all but..........I don't know.......if husband had done something like that with one of my sisters......all hades would've broken loose and husband would've been the one catching it, not my sister. Would not matter the cause, it would be because he totally disrespected her as a person and as my sister. And as long as easy child is determined to defend him she won't see it that way, won't understand Nichole's side. Nichole doesn't want to budge because she doesn't want subjected to any more of sister in law's abusive behavior toward her. And I hurt for both of them. Thanks to sister in law behaving like such a major jerk (being kind here) both my girls are hurting and feeling abandoned by each other. And that makes me livid!!! So I'm trying to keep out of it and hope each of them sees the other's side of things and can talk it out eventually. Maybe it will be a growing/learning experience for each of them. I just hope they get this mended soon cuz it's killing me. :( [/QUOTE]
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