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Robinboots,

Please re-read your email. It sounds like you definately are irked. I don't generally butt in, but I really can't hold my tongue about your message. Mamaof5 is a new person on our board and is asking for advice, not a critique on her parenting. It is obvious that we all have different styles of parenting and are trying to find ways to help our child that has issues. Some of the things that you are saying are very argumentative and it is very apparant that you irked, angry (shrug) and showing frustration. Please do not welcome someone to the board this way. It could very well deter them from coming back and receiving the help they are looking for. I wouldn't have felt welcome by your post whatsover. Sometimes it is better to just not post when you feel so strongly and feel like you can't express yourself in a nice way. I will probably be blasted about getting in the middle, but do not want anyone to feel personally attacked. We get that more than we can handle with our own difficult child's.

Jody

<blockquote data-quote="Jody" data-source="post: 352783" data-attributes="member: 8787">Robinboots,&nbsp;Please re-read your email. It sounds like you definately are irked.&nbsp; I don't generally butt in, but I really can't hold my tongue about your message.&nbsp; Mamaof5 is a new person on our board and is asking for advice, not a critique on her parenting.&nbsp; It is obvious that we all have different styles of parenting and are trying to find ways to help our child that has issues.&nbsp; Some of the things that you are saying are very argumentative and it is very apparant that you irked, angry (shrug) and showing frustration.&nbsp; Please do not welcome someone to the board this way.&nbsp; It could very well deter them from coming back and receiving the help they are looking for.&nbsp; I wouldn't have felt welcome by your post whatsover.&nbsp; Sometimes it is better to just not post when you feel so strongly and feel like you can't express yourself in a nice way.&nbsp; I will probably be blasted about getting in the middle, but do not want anyone to feel personally attacked.&nbsp; We get that more than we can handle with our own difficult child's.&nbsp; &nbsp;Jody</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Jody, post: 352783, member: 8787"] Robinboots, Please re-read your email. It sounds like you definately are irked. I don't generally butt in, but I really can't hold my tongue about your message. Mamaof5 is a new person on our board and is asking for advice, not a critique on her parenting. It is obvious that we all have different styles of parenting and are trying to find ways to help our child that has issues. Some of the things that you are saying are very argumentative and it is very apparant that you irked, angry (shrug) and showing frustration. Please do not welcome someone to the board this way. It could very well deter them from coming back and receiving the help they are looking for. I wouldn't have felt welcome by your post whatsover. Sometimes it is better to just not post when you feel so strongly and feel like you can't express yourself in a nice way. I will probably be blasted about getting in the middle, but do not want anyone to feel personally attacked. We get that more than we can handle with our own difficult child's. Jody [/QUOTE]

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