Robinboots,
I am sorry that you feel attacked. Maybe you will agree with this and maybe not. I wasn't attacking you, I was being truthful. None of the other posts have the tone that you did mamaof5 felt hostility, she felt you portayed contempt for her parenting style. That's not something anyone wants to feel, no matter how you "meant" it when we come here for advice from friends. I am very interested in any charts or reward programs so I always check out any discussion regarding them, not familiar with mamaof5's parenting style and have no reason to be thin skinned about anything relating to it. I did not feel good writing an email to anyone about anything in this nature, it was just something I could not let slip by. It just rubbed me the wrong way. It's called accountability. That's definately something I think all parents, ecspecially the "old fashioned" type know a lot about. I hope the "bad day" gets better and you continue to post, that was not my intention, my intention was to not let what felt (in my humble opinion) a very blatant disregard for putting anything tactfully. Maybe after you have your say we can get back to why the original post was sent. The rewards chart. I have tried a few but always lookf for new ideas.
