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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 583685" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>((hugs))</p><p></p><p>Good for you. </p><p></p><p>The thing to remember is husband is NOT your ex. While he might cop attitude and be pig headed......there is no reason to let your PTSD be triggered. (good way to talk yourself back out of the jitters) Believe it or not, it is a good thing for you to stand up to him when needed. Uncomfortable, yes, but it shows you that regardless of the past you <strong>can</strong> stand up for yourself and your children. </p><p></p><p>If husband is anything like Fred, the screaming would've done him in. Sensory issue. Not that I coddled him about it. Children are children and there are going to be the occasional screams for whatever reason. I just got through a rather long period of Connor screaming all day long simply because he liked it. omg Thank heaven we passed out of that stage. </p><p></p><p>Once tempers calm you can try to explain to him that covering her mouth will only going to exacerbate the situation. He may get it eventually, or not. Fred tended to escalate situations, which is why he wasn't allowed to handle discipline except as a backup to me. It was just not something he did well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 583685, member: 84"] ((hugs)) Good for you. The thing to remember is husband is NOT your ex. While he might cop attitude and be pig headed......there is no reason to let your PTSD be triggered. (good way to talk yourself back out of the jitters) Believe it or not, it is a good thing for you to stand up to him when needed. Uncomfortable, yes, but it shows you that regardless of the past you [B]can[/B] stand up for yourself and your children. If husband is anything like Fred, the screaming would've done him in. Sensory issue. Not that I coddled him about it. Children are children and there are going to be the occasional screams for whatever reason. I just got through a rather long period of Connor screaming all day long simply because he liked it. omg Thank heaven we passed out of that stage. Once tempers calm you can try to explain to him that covering her mouth will only going to exacerbate the situation. He may get it eventually, or not. Fred tended to escalate situations, which is why he wasn't allowed to handle discipline except as a backup to me. It was just not something he did well. [/QUOTE]
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