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Bio stole in front of son "He needs to know how to do these things"
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 603781" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I think that you first need to start keeping a record of these things so that you can make the court aware of this. I know several of the judges here and knowledge of this, esp with a parent saying a child needed to learn how to do this, would make them seriously consider the wisdom of having the child spend time with that parent. You would need an attorney to properly present the info to the judge, but it can become quite effective if you keep a log of it.</p><p></p><p>I do think RE has a good way to address the problem. I would likely say that Mom was wrong, but that it is okay to love people even when they make mistakes in spite of those mistakes. All you can do is try to steer him the right way and hope she either loses interest or messes up big enough to make a judge find her unfit. </p><p></p><p>I think that many judges do not take a close enough look at the parents and leave kids vulnerable to things like this, but there isn't much that can be done in many cases. </p><p></p><p>If she does this very often, the stores WILL catch on and WILL start to not sell items to her or will charge her with vandalism or fraud for these things. Here they often charge someone wtih both when they have damaged an item to try to buy ti for a discount. Most stores have surveillance and someone reviews tapes every week or so, and they can and do bring criminal charges for that kind of thing. Our WM is esp tough on that sort of thing. I know some of the security staff at our WMs and they have all sorts of stories about people they catch from reviewing security tapes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 603781, member: 1233"] I think that you first need to start keeping a record of these things so that you can make the court aware of this. I know several of the judges here and knowledge of this, esp with a parent saying a child needed to learn how to do this, would make them seriously consider the wisdom of having the child spend time with that parent. You would need an attorney to properly present the info to the judge, but it can become quite effective if you keep a log of it. I do think RE has a good way to address the problem. I would likely say that Mom was wrong, but that it is okay to love people even when they make mistakes in spite of those mistakes. All you can do is try to steer him the right way and hope she either loses interest or messes up big enough to make a judge find her unfit. I think that many judges do not take a close enough look at the parents and leave kids vulnerable to things like this, but there isn't much that can be done in many cases. If she does this very often, the stores WILL catch on and WILL start to not sell items to her or will charge her with vandalism or fraud for these things. Here they often charge someone wtih both when they have damaged an item to try to buy ti for a discount. Most stores have surveillance and someone reviews tapes every week or so, and they can and do bring criminal charges for that kind of thing. Our WM is esp tough on that sort of thing. I know some of the security staff at our WMs and they have all sorts of stories about people they catch from reviewing security tapes. [/QUOTE]
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