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Bipolar adult son, is wanting to move back in.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 741018" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I would personally not let him back for any reason. medications are no guarantee that he will be no longer be violent. He was extremely violent. medications dont cure all. It may not be his bipolar alone causing violence. This is a man who beat up his grandmother. How can you trust him??</p><p></p><p>I think a long term plan in my opinion has to be outside of your family home. He is a man now. He can rebuild his life with community supports. Or not if he chooses to keep refusing</p><p></p><p>It is fine to tell him everyone loves him if they do. I know my three nice kids dont love their abusive brother who they are appalled treats everyone so badly and my son doesnt care and I dont lie. Only you know what is true.</p><p></p><p>I have suffered extremely serious depression, enough to be hospitslized for ten weeks, and medications dont always make it perfect but I was never violent. medications are not magic. in my opinion therapy matters just as much with the right medications (which can take years to find) and your son is old enough to fix his life without coming home to you, which will always be a risk to your precious young girls. I wouldnt consider it. They dont deserve to be involved in their adult brothers very serious and dangerous life. They deserve a childhood that is calm and safe without his influence.</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 741018, member: 1550"] I would personally not let him back for any reason. medications are no guarantee that he will be no longer be violent. He was extremely violent. medications dont cure all. It may not be his bipolar alone causing violence. This is a man who beat up his grandmother. How can you trust him?? I think a long term plan in my opinion has to be outside of your family home. He is a man now. He can rebuild his life with community supports. Or not if he chooses to keep refusing It is fine to tell him everyone loves him if they do. I know my three nice kids dont love their abusive brother who they are appalled treats everyone so badly and my son doesnt care and I dont lie. Only you know what is true. I have suffered extremely serious depression, enough to be hospitslized for ten weeks, and medications dont always make it perfect but I was never violent. medications are not magic. in my opinion therapy matters just as much with the right medications (which can take years to find) and your son is old enough to fix his life without coming home to you, which will always be a risk to your precious young girls. I wouldnt consider it. They dont deserve to be involved in their adult brothers very serious and dangerous life. They deserve a childhood that is calm and safe without his influence. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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